Can We Learn How to Sew?

By Jason He

Back in Hanoi, our Study Abroad Program collaborated with the S.O.S. Village to create a three-day curriculum that allowed the study abroad students to experience a worthy cause such as orphanages. In Ho Chi Minh City, another service learning course was established between the students and the Vincentian Daughters of Charity organization. In this service learning component, the students were split up into small groups and then given a schedule of sites to visit over a course of three days. My group was comprised of Ken, a recent graduate, Yen, a Vietnamese graduate student, and myself.

On our first day we went to the Daughters of Charity and worked with the embroidery division. At first I felt odd being there because my mother, who is an immigrant from China, was a seamstress, and she had a rough time in the United States at first. I remember how hard she worked and the conditions in which she worked under. Being in the same room with the girls who sewed by hand, and not machine, opened the floodgates of emotions and memories. One of the Sisters asked us what we wanted to do for the day and I immediately asked, “Can we learn how to sew?” The Sister smiled and replied, “Of Course.”

We were introduced to some of the girls who would teach us how to embroider our initials on handkerchiefs. Embroidering is no easy task. The needle is small, too small for even my hands, the technique is difficult, and the embroidery is usually very complicated. Even something as simple as the initial “J” took me over an hour of painstaking work. As I sat there learning the technique I bonded with a few of the women around me. They were so happy and excited that a foreigner would take such an interest in their profession. A few of the women knew some broken English and we had a nice cultural exchange. After I had finished the embroidery the women praised me on my handicraft even though I knew it could not compare to their skill. I was humbled by their gesture and their acceptance.

This setup of an embroidery shop is a wonderful way of teaching girls and women who lack the education and skill for white collared jobs how to making a living. Embroidery may not be the most impressive and prestigious occupation but it still requires skill and patience. I was greatly impressed with the embroiderers and their will to work; it is very inspiring.