A Grateful Larry Durso ’75NDC Embodies the Vincentian Charism

July 19, 2010

When Larry Durso ’75NDC arrived at the Staten Island campus of St. John’s University in the fall of 1971, he had the distinction of being a member of the first class of St. John’s students to enroll as freshmen at what was formerly Notre Dame College.

“Back then, the Staten Island campus was a very different place than it is today,” he recalled. “There were fewer buildings, much more green space and open areas, but even then there was a real sense of family that made an immediate and lasting impact on all of us. I came from Brooklyn, and because I didn’t drive when I started college I had to take a few buses to get there, but for me, that campus was heaven.”

Durso made the most of his time at St. John’s, coming away with a Bachelor of Arts summa cum laude in History and Political Science and a lasting relationship with Patricia Facciponte ’75NDC, a fellow student who, one year after graduation, would become his wife.

“It was funny, because even though Pat and I only lived a few blocks apart in the Sunset Park area of Brooklyn, we didn’t know each other until we met on campus at a meeting of students in the Honors Program. We stayed together during our four years at St. John’s, got engaged right after graduation and were married a year later in 1976. We’re still together, so I guess everything worked out!”

Currently Managing Director-Investments at Durso-Frazier Wealth Management Group of Wells Fargo Advisors, LLC, he deals with high net worth individuals and small corporate accounts to manage and invest their resources in a conservative yet profitable manner. He attributes much of his professional success, particularly his ability to communicate with and make presentations to clients, to what he learned at the University.

“In the Honors Program, the professors required that we make presentation after presentation, and that really helped me to develop the ability to get up and speak before a group of people. It helped to develop my self-confidence, so that even today I can get up before a group of literally thousands of people and feel totally comfortable. There are some things that you learn in college and forget right away, and there are other things that stay with you for the rest of your life. These are the things that matter, and I have to say that St. John’s did those things very well for me, and they’re still doing them very well for the students today.”

In addition to valuing the education he received, Durso has a deeply personal reason for remaining an ardent supporter of the University. His family was not wealthy, and struggled with ways to pay for his St. John’s tuition. Thankfully, after finishing his first semester with a perfect 4.0 GPA, he was awarded a partial academic scholarship that helped to ease the financial burden for his family. “The fact that St. John’s gave me that grant was huge for me and my family,” he said. “The University stepped up and helped us pay my tuition, which is one of the reasons why I believe so strongly in giving back.”

Grateful for their success in life, Larry and Pat Durso support a variety of charitable and philanthropic endeavors designed to reflect the Vincentian values of reaching out to those in need. They are active in Catholic Charities, devote time to initiatives designed to ease the suffering of patients with cancer and work with wounded veterans returning from the wars in the Middle East.

“I’ve been blessed,” he said, “and I believe that if you do well and make money, the only way that it has any value is to give some of it back. Pat and I truly believe in the Vincentian values, and we both feel strongly that it’s only in giving back that life becomes meaningful. Let me give you an example. One time I was serving as an auctioneer at an event and noticed that a wounded veteran in a wheelchair was bidding on a trip that he obviously wanted to take very badly. He was the highest bidder on the trip, and afterwards Pat and I decided that we would pay for his trip ourselves, saving him about $1,600. We do things like that all the time, not for any publicity but just because it’s the right thing to do.”

That commitment to service also includes the University that has played such an important role in both of their lives. “I love St. John’s,” he said. “They do such good things for so many people, and that’s really wonderful. Everyone at St. John’s always has their heart in the right place, and it makes me feel good to be a part of that.”