Author Mary Childers Tells Her Stirring Tale And Encourages Others

November 15, 2006

Queens, N.Y. -

Mary Childers, Ph.D. brought her compelling story and unique perspective to the University community on November 14, through an interactive presentation titled “Growing Up Poor in New York, Yesterday and Today.”

Based on her book Welfare Brat: A Memoir about her experiences as a young girl in a poverty stricken household in the Bronx in the 1960s, Childers led a discussion about some of the issues facing the poor. Childers began by encouraging those gathered to take advantage of their location in New York City to discover the various boroughs they may not be familiar with.  Exploration could lead to great growth, she said. “I am convinced that one of the reasons I can stand here today with a Ph.D. and the confidence to speak in public is that as an adolescent I ventured out of my very poor Bronx neighborhoods into cleaner, safer enclaves and into Manhattan where I was stimulated and socialized to speak and conduct myself in ways that made it easier to graduate high school and go to college unlike five out of seven of my siblings who all dropped out of high school,” she told the audience with a sense of candor which carried throughout much of her speech.

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Using both the historical perspective of her childhood and examples of contemporary issues currently being grappled with by the poor, she encouraged those in attendance to share their viewpoints on some of the material she presented. She read from a portion of her memoir about her time as a 14-year old sales clerk at B. Altman & Company Department Store on Fifth Avenue in Manhattan and traveling from that upscale store to her disadvantaged home. Along the way she was mugged and Childers used the recollection to make a point about the lives of poor children. “Poor children who take care of themselves have to grow up faster,” Childers observed. “The whole meaning of childhood is different. They are constantly fearful of their surroundings. There are so many children growing up like that now, fearful of crime.”

She shared with members of the University community some of the risk factors for the poor such as substance abuse, domestic violence and family repetition of poverty while also focusing on factors which have helped such as literacy; and social workers, guidance counselors and teachers who take an interest. Childers explained that as difficult as her childhood was, the Bronx of today is even more harrowing for the poor. Evidence of that, she said, was a recent New York Times report which stated that the area is now the poorest urban county in the entire country and that more than half the Bronx families headed by a woman and including young children live below the poverty level. Given the debate over welfare, Childers galvanized St. John’s students to take the opportunity to educate themselves about the topic and the various viewpoints. “One of the great things about being in college is that you have the time for nonpartisan discussion to really look at all the different opinions that come to bear about a particular subject and decide where you stand,” she remarked.

Many in the audience applauded Childers' ability to overcome her circumstances and go on to complete a Ph.D. at the University of Buffalo, be published and have a successful career. She is a consultant with over 20 years of experience working on organizational change and equity, particularly in higher education. She has most recently served as Senior Advisor to the Provost and Associate Dean of Arts and Sciences at Brandeis University and has taught courses in English literature and women’s studies at Dartmouth College, Oberlin College, the University of Cincinnati and Vanderbilt University. While accepting the accolades, Childers also sought to acknowledge that she has been fortunate. “I think my story shows that some people can make it against great odds,” she said. “I also think that there are a lot of people whose nature is to identify with their communities to want to fit in, to do what is going on in their communities. I know a lot of people who didn’t make it who are great people.”

The event was co-sponsored by the Department of Student Life, Office of the Provost, Discover New York and Core Curriculum, Student Government, Inc. and the President's Multicultural Advisory Committee and was part of the Fall 2006 Academic Lecture Series.