Alumnae Event Examines Changing Role of Women in Society

April 27, 2010

On Thursday, April 22, 2010 alumnae and friends gathered on the Queens campus to acknowledge the achievements of the women who have graduated from St. John's University while discussing how the role of women has changed during the past 50 years.  Hosted by the St. John's University Alumnae Association, "Celebrating the Women of St. John's" was made possible through the generosity of the Dr. E. Lawrence Deckinger Family Foundation.  The Foundation is named in memory of E. Lawrence Deckinger, Ph.D. a beloved former faculty member and long-term supporter of St. John's.

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The program began as Thea Graves Pellman '57CBA provided guests with an informative history of the Alumnae Association. A moving force behind the Association for many years, Pellman described the important role that women graduates have played in every aspect of the University family, including their establishment of the Veronica M. Smith Alumnae Association Scholarship Fund. The Fund provides scholarship assistance to relatives of Alumnae Association members entering St. John's as full-time undergraduates.

Scholarship recipient Keri Zachmann '12P expressed her appreciation to the alumnae for providing much needed financial assistance that has allowed her to achieve academic success. "Thank you for my scholarship," she said. "I'm grateful because the grant lets me concentrate on my studies, which are very important to me."

Representing the Dr. E. Lawrence Deckinger Family Foundation, Nancy Deckinger welcomed and introduced Keynote Speaker Gail Collins, the first woman editor of the New York Times editorial page and author of When Everything Changed: The Amazing Journey of American Women from 1960 to the Present.

Collins discussed how the research she conducted for her book uncovered the many ways that the role of women in our society has evolved during the past half-century.  She described how, in 1960, the most coveted job for a woman was that of an airline stewardess, even though the position was fraught with numerous limits and restraints. "Back then, stewardesses had to have a certain appearance," she said. "They had to look a certain way, walk a certain way, have physical measurements within well-defined ranges and couldn't be married.  A former stewardess told me that one of her colleagues was secretly married, and when the company found out about it a representative came onto the plane and took her away.  She was fired and never heard from again. That's the way it was back then."

She noted that in 1960 women couldn't serve on juries, couldn't get credit in their own name and didn't bother applying for jobs that were simply unavailable to them. That reality changed in the late 1960s and early 1970s, when the former restrictions against women became illegal. "People's relationships changed," she recalled. "It was absolutely astounding. Almost overnight our expectations about what a little girl could do when she grew up became very different. It was the civil rights movement that made the country very touchy about fairness, and that was a great thing."  

Collins noted that even today, the "…career vs. children dilemma is still a challenge for women. It's something that we need to address and deal with as a society."

In addition to hearing from an accomplished woman who has been at the forefront of her profession for many years, alumnae enjoyed the opportunity to come back to alma mater to interact with other female graduates of the University. "I love St. John's," said Mary Tomes '81C, '07MLS. "It's been great to me. My husband also teaches here now in the [St. John's] College of Professional Studies, and it's just a wonderful place. I thought it would be great to come today. I'm also very interested in hearing Gail Collins speak because I've read her books as well."

"I chose this event because I knew I would meet a different mix of individuals," agreed Susan Strong '99MBA. "I've met people from health care, art and education so far. People here are friendly and sharing and I think you just learn so many things. As always, St John's is a great school and I love it!"

For additional information about the Alumnae Association or to participate in upcoming Alumnae Association activities, please contact Kristy Horning '06CPS at (718) 990-6835 or e-mail horningk@stjohns.edu.