A Vincentian Spring Break: Greek Society Students Brighten Ailing Children’s Lives

March 24, 2009

Combining “Greek life” with St. John’s University’s Vincentian tradition of service, a group of St. John’s students and administrators spent their spring break helping others as volunteers at a unique “resort” for children with life-threatening illnesses.

Serving food, handing out gifts and offering their time to children and parents, 12 students from St. John’s Queens and Staten Island campuses spent a week at Give Kids the World Village in Orlando, Florida. Each year, the 70-acre, non-profit resort provides activity-filled, week-long vacations for thousands of ailing children and their families.

Students described the experience, from March 2-8, as “life-changing.” Three University administrators joined them on the “alternative spring break,” a Student Life effort to help Greek societies fulfill their own commitment to service while engaging students in St. John’s mission of improving the world by serving those in need.

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A Broad Commitment to Service

Serving at home and around the world is central to a St. John’s education. Through alternative spring breaks, “plunges” and other activities, students of all faiths embrace St. John’s focus on service. This focus is rooted in the example of St. Vincent de Paul, the 17th-century priest who revolutionized efforts to improve the lives of those in need.  Vincent founded the Congregation of the Mission, which guides St. John’s to this day.

Give Kids the World let students experience St. John’s mission through the eyes of children with serious illnesses. The program began three years ago, when Mary Pelkowski and Chad Sandifer began searching for new ways to expand Vincentian service opportunities for students in the Greek societies.

“Even after three years, it’s still a deeply rewarding experience that touches every aspect of St. John’s mission as a Catholic and Vincentian university,” said Mary H. Pelkowski, Director of Student Leadership Development at the Queens campus. 

Seeing the Mission in Action

Ms. Pelkowski was one of three administrators on the trip. The others were Chad Sandifer, Director of Campus Life at Staten Island, and Rev. Tri M. Duong, C.M., Campus Minister to Athletics at Queens.

“St. John’s is a mission-driven university,” said Mr. Sandifer. “Mary and I teamed up to help the Greek organizations live out the University’s focus on service — a mission that many Greek societies share.”

Students had to apply for the opportunity. On Friday, February 27, selected students met at the Manhattan campus for a “Formation Meeting,” featuring “ice breakers,” videos about the Village and discussions about their expectations. Students and administrators boarded an airplane for Florida that Monday morning.

Giving Something Back

For Alyssa Nowak, a Queens-campus junior in Gamma Phi Beta, the experience was “beyond description.”

“It’s an amazing feeling to brighten a child’s life — especially when the child is ill,” said Alyssa. “To see them so happy, and to know you’re helping to make them happy, helps you to appreciate everything life has to offer.”

Alyssa and her fellow students worked in two shifts each day —7 a.m. to 1 p.m., and 5 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. They spent time with the children in varied activities, but Alyssa’s favorite was dressing in costume with four other St. John’s students at a “Christmas” parade the village holds for the children every Thursday throughout the year.

“They had me dress as a princess,” said Alyssa. “I was just overwhelmed by how happy it made the children. They would run up with these big smiles and ask to take pictures with ‘the princess.’ If I could have stayed there, I would.”

Joseph Bonomo, a senior at the Staten Island campus, said he applied for the alternate spring break “to give something back.”

“I wanted to do something meaningful,” said Joe, a member of Iota Alpha Sigma. “I’m grateful I did — there were moments that simply took our breath away.”

For Joseph, like Alyssa, one of those moments was during the Village parade. Dressed as a prince, Joseph was astonished by one child’s delight at meeting him. “He was only about six years old,” Joseph recalls. “He said all he wanted was to be a ‘prince.’”

Together, Joseph and the boy honked the horn of a Ford Model T in the parade. “It was one of those loud, 1930s sounds, and he loved it,” said Joseph. “That night, his mother brought him over to say goodbye to me — he was leaving the next day. It was humbling.”

Along with Alyssa and Joseph, the other students were Kristen Dallek, Gamma Phi Beta; Yesenia Francisco, Theta Phi Alpha; Samantha Polanzi, Kappa Phi Beta; Mary Scanlon, Gamma Phi Beta; and Alysha Velez, Theta Phi Alpha (Queens campus); Deana Guarella, Delta Epsilon Beta; Khadijeh Karaein, Delta Kappa Delta; Christie Rossiter, Delta Kappa Delta; Anna Teryek, Delta Epsilon Beta; and Erika Theus, Delta Epsilon Beta (Staten Island campus).